Bullying based on sexual preferences

Supporting each other

There are resources specifically for those identifying as Gay, Lesiban, Bisexual, or Transgender:


The Trevor Project: The nation’s only 24/7 crisis intervention and suicide prevention lifeline for lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender and questioning young people ages 13 to 24.


1-866-4-U-TREVOR (866-488-7386)


The GLBT National Help Center Hotline: 1-888-THE-GLNH (888-843-4564)


Youth Talkline: 1-800-246-PRIDE (800-246-7743) 

Realities of LGBT bullying

If you hear of LGBT bullying

According to the gay bullying statistics from the lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender (LGBT) community, about one fourth of all students from elementary age through high school are the victims of bullying and harassment while on school property because of their race, ethnicity, gender, disability, religion or sexual orientation. Unfortunately the primary reason for bullying is due to something that may set themselves apart from the norm, and that includes sexual orientation. (www.bullyingstatistics.org)


It is estimated that approximately 5 to 9 percent of youth are gay or lesbian, bisexual, or uncertain about their sexual orientation.


The American Psychiatric Association and the American Psychological Association changed their stance on homosexuality in the 1970s, stating that it is NOT a disorder and that sexual orientation is not a person's individual choice, nor can mental health professionals "change" the sexual orientation of their clients.


Bullying Based on Perceptions about Sexual Orientation

  • As many as 93 percent of teenagers hear derogatory words about sexual orientation at least once in a while, with more than half of teens surveyed hearing such words every day at school and in the community.

  • Negative name-calling and harassment about sexual orientation can be harmful to all students. Three out of four students who are bullied with such remarks are not identified as gay, lesbian, bisexual, transgender, or questioning (GLBTQ). These derogatory comments are often used broadly to inflict harm in a school setting. 

  • Seventy-eight percent of gay (or believed to be gay) teens are teased or bullied in their schools and communities, a percentage significantly higher than for heterosexual youth.

  • According to findings from the Indicators of School Crime and Safety report, in 2003, 12 percent of students ages twelve to eighteen reported that someone at school had used hate-related words against them, and 36 percent of students saw hate-related graffiti at school during the previous six months. One percent reported that the hate-related words concerned their sexual orientation.4 

  • A national survey of 760 students, ages twelve to seventeen, indicates that the most likely group to be bullied are "kids who are gay or thought to be gay." Most teens (78 percent) said that they disapproved of anti-gay teasing or bullying.5 

  • In a nationally representative sample of nearly 3,500 students ages thirteen to eighteen, one-third reported that students in their school are frequently harassed because of their perceived or actual sexual orientation. 





  • No child or adolescent deserves to be bullied.

  • Do not tolerate any anti-homosexual slurs.

  • Work with student government and other school clubs to hold programs on respect, school safety, and anti-bullying.

  • Be alert to signs of youth who may be in distress.

  • Encourage any young person who is bullied to tell a teacher, counselor, or parent.

  • Provide confidential help-consult with a school counselor or other mental health professional if you feel uncertain about how best to support.

  • Support training and education about these issues.

Negative Impact of Bullying

  • Bullying and harassment can have negative effects on the development and mental health of GLBTQ students, such as extreme anxiety and depression, relationship problems, low self-esteem, substance abuse, and thoughts of suicide. These students are also at much greater risk of physical assault than other children and youth.

  • Students who had experienced anti-gay harassment are four times more likely than non-harassed youth to be threatened with or injured by a weapon.

  • Twenty-two percent of GLBTQ students had skipped school in the last month for safety concerns and are three times more likely to drop out of school.

  • GLBTQ students are also at risk for not getting the support they need when they are being bullied due to their perceptions that adults at school may have intolerant attitudes or may not provide confidential help in which to deal with their situation. Four out of five GLBTQ students say they know of no supportive adult at school.

  • GLBTQ students are two to three times as likely to commit suicide as heterosexual students and may account for a startling 30 percent of all completed youth suicides. These students are also more likely to experience suicidal thoughts, plans, and attempts than other students.

SOURCE: Youth Who Are Bullied Based on Perceptions About their Sexual Orientation, by Jane Riese



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